friends with diplomatic benefits

I’ve been seeing this boy since November. We got into a fight and went on a break before he left for a family trip to Peru. He was supposed to come home the 17, but Peru declared martial law and closed their borders. So now I’ve been helping him and his family get back to the US. I’ve spoken and emailed over 20 politicians, orgs, and lawyers. But as of yet still no clue if we are in relationship.