sex and death 101

I live on a tiny island with 300 people. My mum died a month and a half ago and I broke up with my ex of a year and a half just before xmas. I started seeing a fling from my past and invited him to come stay with me hoping to be as discreet as possible so as not to look like a heartless monster. We are both currently stuck cohabiting as his living arrangements have fallen through on the mainland. We have no money. He is getting restless and I am getting annoyed at his living habits. We are having a tremendous amount of great sex at least.